Hi, do you and your hubby see the same consultant? Do you go with him to his appts? I wondered if it was the same consultant and he saw you together, he might realise how tricky things are, with you both having RA. Also he would realise you know how well the meds should be working, as they work well for your hubby, if that makes sense

It is so annoying having to wait for ages for appt and then for meds to kick in. Maybe you could ask for a steroid jab to tide you over? It is so demanding physically looking after small children, but so rewarding and enjoyable. I really hope an acceptable solution can be found!
Deb x